Why don’t girls text first? This has always been a big point of discussion. This is because they may think that if they’ll text first, guys will form an opinion that they trying too hard. Sometimes, they think that texting first might annoy a guy. A lot of things come into a girl’s mind when they have to text someone especially a guy. There are many reasons (some are too weird indeed) standing behind a girl’s conception towards not texting first; some of them are stated below.
1. Mr. Inappropriate
When you both must have exchanged numbers, she might think that you are Mr. Inappropriate, which is why she would avoid texting first. Prove to her how appropriate you are, by sending sensible texts. You are the one who can change that impression.
2. Bad Reflection
She might think if she’ll text a guy, she’ll learn a slang and will be using those in her life, which isn’t a good habit actually. So, to avoid this all this, she doesn’t.
3. Friend-Zoned
The girl might think that if she texts the guy first, he might come out of his friend-zone and dream of something more. To maintain a limit, she refrains from texting first; but can the guys stop? No! Out of impatience, they make it a point to send text messages as fast as possible.
4. Dirty Talks
Girls often think that if they’re texting a guy, the will have to talk in a dirty way as he’ll force them to; so they avoid.
5. She Wants You To Chase
If she wants to be playful and considers it better that you will and you can chase her down, she will never text you first.
6. Special Feeling
Girls sometimes think that they are special creatures of God. So, wasting their time on the ordinary guys isn’t something which they appreciate. Yes, for them, initiating the “Text message trend” is no less than a waste of time.
7. She Doesn’t Know The Start
Many girls don’t know what to start with; they are afraid and have that question, “What if I text and things go wrong?” This is what stops them from texting first.
8. Don’t Want To Be Annoying
If a guy is busy, she doesn’t want to be a reason to disturb him and make him think that she’s annoying.
9. Many Texts A Day
A girl gets more than 50 texts a day and so, she doesn’t even have time to reply; guys should forget that she will text first because she is damn “Busy”.
So, finally logic samjhe?