In Indian society, women leave their parents’ house and begin their lives in an entirely new way after marriage. Undoubtedly, it’s a big challenge and they go through many ups and downs while making a place for themselves in the new house. But what if men leave their house instead of women and go through all those changes and difficulties? Sounds interesting, doesn’t it? Naturally, this way, they will also get to understand all the sacrifices women make after marriage!
Here we have listed out 12 things that will happen to a man if he faces Vidai and shifts to the home of his in-laws:
1. You might need to change surname and accept a new name, new family and new house whole-heartedly, whether you like it or not!
2. You will have to share bed with someone who might be a stranger. She will expect you to be pure and want you to show full devotion to the relationship.
3. You will have to leave bed early, sacrifice bed tea and instead, make tea for in-laws, serve them first and then take it.
4. You will be responsible for carrying out all the household responsibilities, from cooking to cleaning, washing clothes to maintaining house, welcoming guests to make arrangements for festivals and so on, and that too, with perfection.
5. You will be supposed to take care of likes and dislikes of all the members and act accordingly. What’s more, you should leave the hope of getting priority or some rest and you will actually be lucky if you get some. Everyone will want you to adjust according to their wishes and choices.
6. You can’t afford to have your favorite food all the time or whenever you want and eat whatever is available.
7. You will be supposed to win hearts of each family member, no matter whatever you have to do for it!
8. You must be ready to hear criticism at any time and every time. Your in-laws can crack a joke on you and your family and you are expected to laugh too, despite the fact that you wish to teach them a lesson.
9. Regardless of how much you devote yourself while making others happy and contented, never expect appreciation.
10. Mother-in-law can be angry or annoyed with you at just any time, sometimes even without any solid reason.
11. You will often end up crying while talking to your mom on phone.
12. You are not supposed to argue and just say sorry regardless of whether you are guilty or not.
How amazing it would be if it is actually practiced! What do you say?
